New Year's Eve wasn't standard for us through the years. Seeing a movie in a theater that encompassed the last minutes of New Year's Eve as well as a bit of the First Day of the Year is one way I've brought in the New Year. I've slept through it on occasion; I've spent time with people, not in a party-type of fashion, though we weren't paying attention to the clock, & at least an hour into the New Year, we realized it. These are more recent ways I've "celebrated" New Year's Eve.
For the most part, back then, our family would gather at whichever local cousin's house chose to host whomever decided to come. This would be nice because it'd be our relatives, although we didn't live in the same neighborhood as any of them, requiring at least a twenty minute drive usually. We'd switch it up occasionally & join our neighbors instead. They'd have their relatives joining them as well, though they were relatives with which we'd become acquainted throughout the year, as well as the years 😄, so no one felt it strange that we'd, well, quite literally, walk across our lawn, through their driveway, & up their front walkway to their front door. We'd joke about how we didn't even need to use the street, let alone drive (& since no one was driving, Dad could drink as he wished without issue), in order to get to the neighbor's house.
The adults typically hung out on the main floor; there'd be something on the television for their entertainment while everyone caught up with one another. The kids resorted to the downstairs where there was a couch for us to goof off on & some other random things around. There'd be about eight to ten kids, nearly ten years apart from oldest to youngest, though we knew each other well enough & enough age difference & maturity range in between the nine to ten years that it never mattered.
Some of what was fun about hanging out next door was that this group of friends, for me, not the adult generation, is that the most of the rest of the year when I'd see this group of people [read: those who were my age] I'd be seeing them only during the "nice weather". This meant that we'd either be wearing play/sweat clothes or in our swimming suits since we'd be playing around in the pool our neighbors had in their backyard. When we'd all be together on New Year's Eve, we'd all be wearing the sort of clothes that we'd typically wear to school. The coolness of this seems a bit, well, uncool now as I'm writing it. I suppose it may be one of those things, which, at that age & time was something exciting, & now, as adulthood has set in deep, there's a great perspective shift.
I also remember being concerned the first few times we'd go next door for New Year's Eve. Mom made a "big thing" out of, once the new year rang in, each person you saw, basically as you saw them, you were supposed to greet them accordingly & give them a kiss. This would've been drastically weird. There were roughly thirty adults there, some of whom I didn't even know their connection to the next door neighbors. It seriously freaked me out & made me uncomfortable, though I eventually got used to realizing when I'd look at these people after the clock struck midnight, they'd just smile & continue along, so - so did I. 😊
Nevertheless, also each year, our neighbor would go into her kitchen & the cabinet/cupboard, whatever it was where she kept these, & she'd dig out one for each of us kids, along with one of these for each of us. At least each of us who'd want to stand outside the front door for the first ten to fifteen seconds of the new year to announce it to the rest of the neighborhood, at least those within hearing distance. There's another thing for which I've gained a drastic perspective shift. Oh, the joys of childhood & adolescence - just to be able to "legitimately" make some noise at the stroke of midnight standing outside.
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